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Marriage: The Biggest Lie Nobody Talks About

Just E & KayCee Season 2 Episode 19

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Y'all, this one hit different. Dr. Monique pulled up and did not come to play. She brought the real, the research, and the receipts on what long-term marriage actually looks like -- not the highlight reel version. Catch the full episode on YouTube - https://youtu.be/PwlSGxxH52Y

In this episode, we get into:

  • The biggest lie people tell themselves before getting married (and why "I'm ready" might be the most dangerous one)
  • Why being committed to the wedding day is not the same as being committed to the life after it
  • The truth about 50/50 -- and why Dr. Monique says it's actually 100/100, redefined
  • E's honest breakdown of the first two years in a blended family and what changed everything
  • KayCee on growing individually while staying connected -- and why that's not a bad thing
  • Why love alone will not hold a marriage together, and what actually will
  • The connection Dr. Monique makes between couples therapy, generational patterns, and Black women's sexual health

About Dr. Monique: Dr. Monique is a therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families. She brings sharp insight, warmth, and zero sugarcoating to the conversation. She does premarital counseling, couples sessions, and creates space for people to show up as their full, unapologetic selves.

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